Monday, December 3, 2007

How to Improve Your Love Relationship

1. Communication is the key to improve your relationship. Talk to your partner and voice how you feel. If something is not working in your relationship, tell your partner what the problem is to find the solution. Not saying a word will only make your relationship sink.
2. Be tolerant of the things you do not like about your partner. After all, you knew them when you got together. Find some positive things about your mate. Have a conversation with a decent tone of voice, do not scream or yell or get into your mate's face. You cannot change a person, so stop thinking if you do things a certain way, your partner will change and become like you want him or her to be. Do not say things you cannot take back. Express what you need because people cannot always guess what you want.
3. Go on dates with your partner (go to the movies, nice restaurant...). Give each other little gifts like chocolate, flowers... Have weekends you can spend without the kids (ask your family to babysit them). Read you poems you wrote for each other, go on getaways, take a hot bubble bath together...
4. Treat each other like when you first started dating and everything was fresh, new and romantic. Do not think that your partner is "in the bag". Do not stop doing things for your partner like opening the door or surprise them with a gift or taking car of yourself. Letting yourself go by not dressing up like you used to, not doing your hair, or putting on a lot of weight are factors that can reduce the attraction in a couple.
5. Be intimate, make time for romance.
6. Trust your partner. Jealousy will only tear you apart. If you choose to stay with your partner, trust him or her.

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3 comments:

Anonymous said...

My husband and I go on dates once a week and it makes our relationship stronger. It's the time when we reconnect again.

Anonymous said...

I agree, I think communication is a must in a healthy relationship. It can make it or break it.

Anonymous said...

My wife and I go out on dates once a week and it does make a difference in our relationship. We are happy!!!